Asmani Jamdar Surve

Seven is a very pious number with so many significant beliefs touching to each aspect of life forming complete circle of life. Be it time, spirituality, colours, music, ways of life, gratitude or attachment. There are so many cultural beliefs based on number 7: 7 days in week (Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday & Saturday) 7 horses to Sun (Surya Dev) cart (Gayatri, Brihati, Ushnih, Jagati, Trishtubha, Anushtubha and Pankti) 7 colours of rainbow (saat rang) (Violet, Indigo, Blue, Green, Yellow, Orange & Red) 7 significant activities of day for human (saat kriya) (Teeth Cleaning, Body Cleaning, Internal Cleaning, Meditation, Worship, Meals & Sleep) 7 notes of music (saat sargam) (Sa, Re, Ga, Ma, Pa, Dha & Ni) 7 gratitudes (saat abhivadan) (Mother, Father, Teacher, God, Sun, Fire & Guest) 7 promises of marriage (saat kasme) (Welfare, Strength, Acceptance, Nurture, Respect, Commitment & Eternity) With that I am going to talk about seven stage

We spoke about Acceptance & Forgiveness in previous 2 articles on relationship fundamentals. Still do we feel that there are times when we fail in relationship building process? If we do then why? What is that is lacking to build that relationship with anyone whom we want to strength it with, be it personal or professional. When we have accepted them and have forgiven them. What we still need to do more? Everything living around us evolve with time and so do relationships. They are best and innocent at nurturing times and with the passing time they either fade in sunlight or mature with investment. Like business every relationship has a bell curve. In professional relationship generally towards the end of curve they end as they are based on materialistic gains, whereas in personal either they start growing up again. But, up and down is part of the life cycle. What is significant here is to keep that life alive in down times too. How we can do it? Most effective way of doing it