Marriage

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It is fun to be married. Have seen many who are unhappy being married. But I thank god that I am happy being married.

It is a lovely feeling which tell you sub consciously that there is someone waiting for you to be there with him. It is a previlage when someone comes and gives compliments into the new roles you have taken up.

The change is so fast and rapid that you do not realize when your life and priority changes. When the people around you who were your top priority goes to secondary lines. You become world for someone and that someone becomes your world. Both want to get lost in each other so much that they at times get amazed if they would have done such a thing ever in life if it would not have been him.

Really marriage is a constitution one should love to be in and respect the feelings of each other. There are lot of small things you can look  upto and you will be happy. Nothing in life is permanent. If you get some change it will make your and others life easy.

Being married and being happily married is very different. Being happily married do not depend on the partner only. It depends on you. Your Happiness is in your hands. You have to understanding your own self for being happy.

BE HAPPY AND MAKE OTHERS HAPPY.

BE MARRIED BE HAPPILY MARRIED.

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