What do you mean by Women Empowerment?

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To my surprise different countries have been so keen on women empowerment in India. Why not other countries, there are countries who are worse in terms of dealing with women in comparison to India.

There are multiple video, articles, post of Indian women rebelling against the Indian system. I just want to tell all those who are doing it, first try to understand the real meaning of empowerment. And then tell me the purpose of the post you have created or done at numerous medias.

Friends & specially women, if you really try to see within every Indian women there is secret desire to be appreciated for what she is doing. She really do not want to leave her kids home and be individualistic and most importantly she will never be happy if she is doing. Pick up any woman who is working leaving her kids back and if she is happy from within with this fact.

I'm a working woman with a lovely family back home and I really admire my family for the great support they offer. But if you ask me, my guilt always follow me for leaving my son behind and missing those once a life moments. Today he longs for me and tomorrow I will long for him once he is independent. That's circle of life.

I really salute those ladies who are HOME MAKER. They are real makers of the house. They do the same monotonous chores everyday and wait whole day for the family members to come back home. And when we are home, instead of asking how was her day. We get on to our own tensions and our own audit skills of what is right in the food cooked or what is wrong in the house. They do it for you and you instead of appreciating the fact are busy showing how productive you are. You are so significant that you go out and earn the living.

Friends LADY of HOUSE are more important than you, remember those instances when lady of the house is not around. All you end up is mess and lot of coordination with either the different vendors or you getting exhausted at the end of the day. We all are important and when we realize we understand the significance of family.

I request all who are promoting WOMEN EMPOWERMENT understand empowering woman do not mean humiliating the ones who are HOME MAKERS. It simply means give her the rights she deserves, respect her for her contribution, appreciate her for her efforts, realise and praise her.

And all the women who are HOME MAKERS you are doing a great contribution to the society by giving your time to nurture the future of nation and struggling to make sure the other members are happy when they come home. And for the extra time that you have when the unproductive feeling seeps in, find the long gone hobby you ignored. Give yourself that time and ask for time when needed to have the feeling of yourself.

Empowerment is finding yourself happy and not going out in the professional world and earn money.

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