What are we?

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We are very curious at all stages of life. We want to know everything and still want to feel happy about everything.

We want to compare ourselves with others but we are not able to accept the fact that what we are we are for a reason and so is the other person. It is very easy to reach a judgement but very difficult to actually analyse the reason behind what we are?

When you are investing even Re. 1 you will investigate and feel it is your right to know where that money goes, but we don't take a second to investigate the reason behind someone personality. Everyone evolves the way they have lived their life or have their own share of experience, but what we are keen on is to judge the person.

Today you will pass easy comment on next person sitting besides, you know or a stranger, but have you ever tried to analyse why are we in so much of hurry to take calls. For us that is not important. 
Friends it is important as your judgement makes a lot of difference to the other person.We have numerous quotes for don't care what other think, care for what you are. So learn from this that don't think anything about the other person if you have not known, think of what you are?

All our spiritual blogs and books say that be content with what you are and make others happy. 

So next time you are judging anyone just try to analyse do you need to judge the person, have you done enough homework, what if someone thinks the same for you and most important if your judgement is not going help at least don't judge as that affects environment with your thoughts. Just ask yourself before I make a judgement am I required to and am I doing what I'm expecting the other person to do.

What Am I? What are We?

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