Reap what you sow

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Why blame the other when the outcome is equal to the effort. If your efforts are positive outcome is always positive and if negative it is obvious.

We always enjoy to blame and not own what is there, we want to make a excuse and accept. Is it that our concious has gone so superior that we can't take control of our gut.

What we give to nation is what we will get back, then why to blame the government or the system. We are the ones who have allowed or made them act or react the way they are doing it today. We all are very happy when government reduced the limit for transport for MPs, good that they did it but why are we happy it is sadistic pleasure. We as individual will first think what will I gain out of anything you come to know. Be it receiving dustbins from ward office or prasad at religious places.

The funny thing is in our English literature I is written in capital irrespective of need.

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